Updates AND BIRTHDAY...

This past week has been very overwhelming and only marginally productive.  Where to start???
I've been quite busy lately; spending a considerable amount of time at fetconnect.com.  I love the layout and all the people are great there.  If you haven't yet, be sure to sign up and hang out.  I digress.

Updates:
MY BIRTHDAY IS TOMORROW!!!
I will be unavailable most of the day.  And expect lots and lots of gifts and birthday wishes.  Also, within the next few weeks I will finally be seeing my husband again on a regular basis.  WOOHOO! 
subs and such:
Yesterday afternoon, I had a lovely time playing with butt slut.  Project stretch is coming along very well.  Bound, wearing cling wrap skirt, large butt plug inserted; butt slut (as always) lived up to his name.  After applying heat cream to his nipples and duct taping his balls, he was allowed to remove the large butt plug (only if cleaned orally).  He did.  Also, for my birthday; he inserted a red birthday candle into his urethra, lit it, turned out the lights and blew it out so I could make a wish.  New pics will be posted soon of butt slut's progress.
I also had a lovely friday afternoon playing with jeff.  I tortured his nipples more than ever.   Constant teasing and denying.  I pushed his limits and loved every minute of it.  Wax, sandpaper, wooded spoon, suction, and of course wearing panties.  Unfortunately, Saturday he was in a car accident.  He and his passengers are well (only minor injuries). 
I believe there is finally someone who'll fuck little bitch, shaggy.  Saturday afternoon he said he's found someone to use him like the whore he is.  He'll be made to wear a collar and leash, bark, and perform as told (like the dirty little slut he is).
I'll be posting more updates and details as time permits.

The Mistress's Creed

I am unsure of the author, as I always give proper credit.      The Mistress's Creed 

 Above all else She cherishes Her
 slave, in the knowledge that the
 gift he/she gives Her is the greatest
 gift of all. She is demanding and
 takes full advantage of the
 power given to Her, but knows
 how to share the pleasure that
 comes from that precious gift.

 She is in control of Herself first
 and foremost, so that She may
 control others. As a stern and
 demanding Mistress, She can
 cause her slave to cry real tears.
 As the consummate lover, She
 will then kiss the tears away,
 without stepping out of
 character.

 In times of trouble, a Mistress will
 leave the roles behind, to be a
 supportive friend and partner, never
 forgetting that this
 is still a loving relationship
 between T/two caring individuals. She 
 is quick to understand the differences 
 between fantasy and reality. She would 
 never ask a slave to put Her before his/her 
 career, or family, just to satisfy Her 
 own pleasure.

 To win Her slave's mind, body, spirit,
 soul, and love, She knows She 
 must first win his/her trust. She will show
 Her slave humor, kindness, and warmth. She
 always him/her that Her guidance and tutoring
 is knowledgeable and deserving of his/her
 attention, that this is a Woman he/she can
 learn from, and trust Her direction.

 She is romantic enough to be protective
 and chivalrous. When called upon, She will 
 fight for Her man's/woman's  honor. She proves to 
 him/her  that She is someone he/she can
 lean on,and depend on.

 When it comes time to teach Her slave his/her
 lessons of obedience,  She is a strong
 and unyielding professor.  She will accept
 no flaw, nothing less than perfection
 from Her student. Never does She use
 discipline without a good reason.
 When She does it is always with a
 knowledgeable and careful hand.
 
 She is always open to communication
 and discussion, always ready to hear
 his/her  wants and needs. She is patient,
 taking time to learn his/her  limits, and
 knowing that as his/her  trust of Her , grows
 so will T/they. he/she  never has to demand ritual
 behavior by him/her . he/she  responds to Her out of
 the want of pleasing Her. Compliance
 comes from the wanting to please, not the
 fear of punishment. She understands
 the fragile nature of mind and body and 
 never violates the trust given to Her.
 
 She is secure enough to laugh at Herself
 and the absurdities of life. Open minded
 enough to learn new things. Strong enough
 to grow. Her tools are mind, body,
 spirit, soul, and love. She understands that
 E/each P/partner gains most from
 pleasuring the O/other. And B/both of T/them
 knows that love and trust are the only
 bindings that truly hold.
 I will be posting my weekly updates later.  Be sure to check back.  Oh, and TOMORROW is my BIRTHDAY!!!